Coaching Tools

Coaching Tools

Paper People & Lunch Box Goodies

Paper people by Carole Gesme, feelings, goodie note examples, lunch notes, self-esteem building.

From Shame to Celebration

The Love Game, from shame into celebration, celebration cards, the importance of play, love affirmations, and affirmations in general.

Frame of Reference

What is frame of reference? Ways of separating.

Discounting

Discounting- the process of denying. Ridicule and sarcasm: how it hurts. How to stop discounting and move to empowerment. Using laughter, and Gallows smile.

Love Affirmations

About love affirmations.

Feelings: Ups and Downs

All about feelings. How to nurture while you are leading a group.

Nurture

​Nurture continuum, nurture, parenting highway, suggestion circle, leading children’s groups.

The Gift of Affirmations

​Affirmations, affirmation activities.

Positive & Negative Communication

Positive and negative communication. Appreciation. Children’s civil rights. 3 Balloon sheet: ways to give positive and negative communication

Contracts

How to introduce something new. Creating a parenting contract (thumb sucking, cello practice contract), leader’s contract with a group, introducing something new.

Networking

​Networking, listening, business skills.

Growing Young

Creating curiosity, flexibility, willingness to experiment, parenting, what to do when someone is “stuck”.

Constructive Feedback

​Dealing with destructive messages, characteristics of constructive criticism, kernel of truth.

Learning Styles

The “right to pass” when in a group, learning styles, ways to lead a good meeting, activity on “fussing” (The Fuss Box).

Winners Change Chain

Winning, identifying ‘wins’, how to plan a workshop.

Levels of Power

​5 Levels of Power (activity), power nametag, power of suggestion circle.

Affirmations & Group Leadership

​Leadership responsibilities, children’s groups, affirmations, affirmation activities

The Generational Game

Generational Affirmation Game (auditory, visual and kinesthetic), Intergenerational silhouettes.

China

Ground rules for support groups, Hangzou People’s Republic of China, and ways to celebrate.

Affirmation History & Research

Research about affirmations and the history of how they came to be.

Time In: When Time Out Doesn’t Work

Information about the book Time In: When Time Out Doesn’t Work

The Theory of Recycling

The Theory of Recyling proposes that the emotional and intellectual developmental tasks of childhood are basic to human life at every age. Therefore, the same tasks will be addressed again and again if there is a need for them to be updated to meet life’s new demands. In this issue we learn all about the THEORY of RECYCLING. If we missed something in our younger years, we can find ways to claim and “recycle” those skills during later years.

Growing Up Again

All about the book Growing Up Again

Young Children Who Are Leaders

Do you notice one child who seems…”bossy”? The child who seems to dictate play for the rest. Learn and observe how children develop leadership skills and how to help direct the “spirited” child for leadership.

When Children Have Strong Feelings

Helping children with big feelings.

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